## * [Diogo](http://chat.stackexchange.com/users/14731/diogo) [asked](http://chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/5418886#5418886):* **Some time ago, we had a notable user ([KCotreau](https://superuser.com/users/83981/kcotreau)) that didn't agree with a moderator action and just moved away from SU because of the disagreement. If this would happend again, how do you will deal with this kind of situation?** ---- ** [DragonLord](http://chat.stackexchange.com/users/11606/dragonlord) [answered](http://chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/5418927#5418927):** I'll send an e-mail to the user, saying that the action was isolated and should not affect the user's standing. I try to be friendly to users, unless they are being obviously abusively. We don't like to lose well-established users, but in no case is a user obliged to participate (except for mods, of course). ** [slhck](http://chat.stackexchange.com/users/2463/slhck) [answered](http://chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/5418938#5418938):** In that case this particular user chose to actively (and repeatedly) *ignore* and act against both community and moderator advice. He was contributing very well in terms of answers, which should always be encouraged, but if they want to leave, that's their decision. ** [Oliver Salzburg](http://chat.stackexchange.com/users/31226/oliver-salzburg) [answered](http://chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/5418985#5418985):** I would never revert a moderating decision I made with good judgement just to please a valuable contributor. ** [soandos](http://chat.stackexchange.com/users/18035/soandos) [answered](http://chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/5419205#5419205):** I am not sure there is anything to deal with. They leave, and there is nothing more to do about it. I think in that case, he was going to burn out in any case, but in general, be nice about it, but don't change the community for the sake of one user - ** [Tom Wijsman](http://chat.stackexchange.com/users/250/tom-wijsman) [added](http://chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/5419253#5419253):** Exactly, everything that's been contributed is still there (watch out for users that slow cripple their posts though). Leaving doesn't mean much, you'll make place for other users / content by not spending much more time on the leaving user... ** [Daniel Beck](http://chat.stackexchange.com/users/2582/daniel-beck) [answered](http://chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/5419224#5419224):** Moderators should keep the good of the community as a whole in mind, not trying to please a single user, even if it's a valuable contributor. It's unfortunate if users decide to take that step, but it's their decision.