Your characterization of what happened seems to be, overall, wrong. Your question wasn't "graveyarded" because personal information was stripped out. It was downvoted because it's a long, rambling mess of a question. It is very much not "written as best as possible".

@VSRawat: Comments being moved to chat is not a punishment. It's a valid response to a series of comments that are basically chat without being in chat. There's nothing wrong with comments being moved to chat.

@Ziv: "you would be tempted by the power to close a question in one click" If you're tempted to use a power just because you can, then I would say that you've got some personal issues to work out. "With the amount of users the big QAs have it's very easy to close a question with just one vote." No, it isn't. One vote can't do squat; it takes five, unless you're a moderator.