If I am upset or not is not the question here. The way it is written, points to a person not been very organized and tends to shoot form the hip.

I have few read flags: 1- bypassing fellow moderators! If reception was not negative then I would ask if we thought that policy could be changed and possibly start canvassing the wider audience, potentially involving the larger community via either the chat rooms or meta.Superuser. 2- If that moderator was not available then I would try to discuss it with another moderator.

that is a (-1) from me, for been completely disorganized and for your choice of skipping important questions. You are missing the opportunity to have us learn about you. My conclusion right now is you do not have the time to do the job.